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I came out to my dad tonight! We were watching a show on sex reassignment surgeries and he asked me if I'd thought about having one. At first I said no, but then I ended up saying yes I had. I was so scared. But he just hugged me and told me he loved me. He said that he thought that was the case anyways. He's been thinking I wanted to be a boy since I bought my first binder a few months back. So needless to say it has had time to sink in and he wasn't all that surprised. Which was amazing, and so much easier than I thought it would be. I told him that people knew me as Cole.  and later in the conversation he said "Well, you're still Melissa.. I mean Cole." Which surprised me, I didn't think he'd be able to use my name in a sentence at all. He said he supported me no matter what but if I wanted any surgeries I was going to have to pay for them. So needless to say I'm a very happy guy right about now.
 

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Cole

Cole...

23, live in Manassas, Virginia. I have bipolar disorder and PTSD. I am transgender [pre-everything]

August 2009

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